How To Be A Good Houseguest

Offer to Help Out In The Kitchen: Pitching in with chores-whether chopping vegetables or taking out the trash-is always the way to go. If she kindly turns you down, suggesting that you relax instead, then you should do just that.

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Talk about Food Allergies In Advance: There should definitely be a discussion about any allergies or dietary restrictions before the visit. Just be sure to do it in a gentle, friendly way. Offer to bring items with you such as soymilk or gluten-free snacks or if you're a vegetarian, offer to cook up some of your favorite recipes.

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If You Smoke, Be Super Considerate: Plan on adjusting to whatever are the rules of house. If your hosts smoke themselves, you can probably do what they do. If they don't, find out what they prefer. If they ask you to only smoke outside, then that's what you'll have to do.

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Ask about Laundry Before You Arrive: If you're staying for a long time, it's inevitable that you'll need to wash some clothes. Our expert suggests asking in advance if your host has a washer and dryer in the home and then if you can use while you are there. Chances are the answer will always be yes.

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Clean Up After Yourself: "I once had houseguests that left the bed a mess and wet towels on the floor," recalls Eddie Ross, lifestyle expert, blogger and former Martha Stewart Living editor. Hang up your towels and tidy up the bed. Your host shouldn't be cleaning up after you. 

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Help Your Kids Be Good Company: This is a great time to instill good guest behavior in your children. Start by helping them to pack light. Instruct them to bring only one or two comfort items along. That means the massive collections of Legos and stuffed animals should stay home.

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Fit In With the Family Schedule: Remember, you're a guest in their home so it's important to be respectful of their routines. If the kids come home from school, need to unwind and get a little too loud for your taste, politely excuse yourself.

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Be Sensitive about Money Matters: It's always great to offer to pitch-in with the grocery bill. However, don't make it an uncomfortable situation. If your host refuses, accept it and think of other ways to help out. Make a dessert!

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Don't Turn Their Home into an Internet Cafe: If you must bring your favorite electronic devices, don't check them constantly. You're there to visit with your host. Your priority is the people in front of you at that moment.

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Show Your Gratitude with a Present: All of our experts agreed that yes, a gift or some sort of gesture is a must. If I'm staying for a weekend with friends, I'll arrive with a great cocktail recipe and all of the ingredients to make it. Our expert prefers to prepare dinner one night or treating the family to lunch. 

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